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	<title>Comments on: Hot. Ass. Mess.</title>
	<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/</link>
	<description>Like Mr. Furious with a really nice handbag.</description>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-659</link>
		<author>Anonymous</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2006 03:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are right! Harlem Grill is a "hot ass mess". And because I can be dense, it took me four visits to realize this. I have fallen in love with "concept" but not the end result. Monday night is fabulous as far as entertainment. That's blues night featuring Acantha. She is riveting to watch, at least the first two times. (Kind of like if Ashanti sang like Tina Turner with a little bit of Diana Ross as Billie Holiday but not Billie Holiday).  She is somewhat convincing though...she gives off a very "tragic" vibe. I just kept thinking "I hope someone doesn't expose her to drugs". Check her out and you'll know what I mean. The service is inattentive at best...they act as if their clientele should be impressed even though the service and staff are unimpressive. The owner West doesn't have much of a presence and doesn't appear to be obsessive about taking this place to the next level. Fuss over your "random" customers a little, make them feel like this is an expereience. Present your place as if it is fabulous! 
It's all a game right?

Bottom line: Too much unrealized potential. Someone needs to polish this diamond!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are right! Harlem Grill is a &#8220;hot ass mess&#8221;. And because I can be dense, it took me four visits to realize this. I have fallen in love with &#8220;concept&#8221; but not the end result. Monday night is fabulous as far as entertainment. That&#8217;s blues night featuring Acantha. She is riveting to watch, at least the first two times. (Kind of like if Ashanti sang like Tina Turner with a little bit of Diana Ross as Billie Holiday but not Billie Holiday).  She is somewhat convincing though&#8230;she gives off a very &#8220;tragic&#8221; vibe. I just kept thinking &#8220;I hope someone doesn&#8217;t expose her to drugs&#8221;. Check her out and you&#8217;ll know what I mean. The service is inattentive at best&#8230;they act as if their clientele should be impressed even though the service and staff are unimpressive. The owner West doesn&#8217;t have much of a presence and doesn&#8217;t appear to be obsessive about taking this place to the next level. Fuss over your &#8220;random&#8221; customers a little, make them feel like this is an expereience. Present your place as if it is fabulous!<br />
It&#8217;s all a game right?</p>
<p>Bottom line: Too much unrealized potential. Someone needs to polish this diamond!</p>
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		<title>By: Zantiferous3</title>
		<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-658</link>
		<author>Zantiferous3</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2005 06:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-658</guid>
		<description>ROFLMAO@ the Harlem Grill having a grill and not much else... girl that night was unbelievable, if that waitress would have come back to that table ONE MORE TIME EMPTY HANDED!!! LMAO... unbelievable... but the bar was definitely the spot!!! Yes!  I must blog about it too!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ROFLMAO@ the Harlem Grill having a grill and not much else&#8230; girl that night was unbelievable, if that waitress would have come back to that table ONE MORE TIME EMPTY HANDED!!! LMAO&#8230; unbelievable&#8230; but the bar was definitely the spot!!! Yes!  I must blog about it too!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Zantiferous3</title>
		<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-657</link>
		<author>Zantiferous3</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2005 06:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-657</guid>
		<description>GIRRRRRRRRLL did we NOT have the most FANTABULOUS TIME??? Seriously... I had the most fun with ya'll.  I KNEW yo' ass was gonna be cool as shit... dammit... ya made me wanna stay until Sunday and get the New York Times classifieds!!!  You would officially be one of my bestest friends if I were ever to come back permanently.  *slipping Sid a $50 under the table for the compliments*  THANK YOU GIRLIE!!!  I am ready to come back already... but won't be back til June for my mother's birthday... we HAVE to get together again!!! I had an absolute BALL.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>GIRRRRRRRRLL did we NOT have the most FANTABULOUS TIME??? Seriously&#8230; I had the most fun with ya&#8217;ll.  I KNEW yo&#8217; ass was gonna be cool as shit&#8230; dammit&#8230; ya made me wanna stay until Sunday and get the New York Times classifieds!!!  You would officially be one of my bestest friends if I were ever to come back permanently.  *slipping Sid a $50 under the table for the compliments*  THANK YOU GIRLIE!!!  I am ready to come back already&#8230; but won&#8217;t be back til June for my mother&#8217;s birthday&#8230; we HAVE to get together again!!! I had an absolute BALL.</p>
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		<title>By: Jazz</title>
		<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-656</link>
		<author>Jazz</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2005 03:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-656</guid>
		<description>I am so jealous.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so jealous.</p>
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		<title>By: golden...</title>
		<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-655</link>
		<author>golden...</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2005 03:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-655</guid>
		<description>DAMN! DAMN! DAMN! IF I had known ya'll were gonna be there for SIX HOURS! I'da came thru! Yep. Would've p/u my dear Singin and came on down to the Harlem Grill! 

Thanks for callin Sid but the kid had a game! girl and we beat their booties! but lost on Sunday! Boooooooooo! 

I'll be callin ya soon for that lunch date! 

Glad you all had a great time!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DAMN! DAMN! DAMN! IF I had known ya&#8217;ll were gonna be there for SIX HOURS! I&#8217;da came thru! Yep. Would&#8217;ve p/u my dear Singin and came on down to the Harlem Grill! </p>
<p>Thanks for callin Sid but the kid had a game! girl and we beat their booties! but lost on Sunday! Boooooooooo! </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be callin ya soon for that lunch date! </p>
<p>Glad you all had a great time!</p>
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		<title>By: Mary</title>
		<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-654</link>
		<author>Mary</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2005 02:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-654</guid>
		<description>Awwww that sounds fun. But when I come to NYC, we better go to Ruby Foo's, Sid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awwww that sounds fun. But when I come to NYC, we better go to Ruby Foo&#8217;s, Sid.</p>
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		<title>By: Will</title>
		<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-653</link>
		<author>Will</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2005 02:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-653</guid>
		<description>LOL...It was a great night and I'm so glad we finally hooked up!

I truly believe that Grill will get their act together.  They better!  I live across the friggin street and need somewhere to eat!  LOL

You are the best, Ms. Dity!!!  Luh yuh back...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL&#8230;It was a great night and I&#8217;m so glad we finally hooked up!</p>
<p>I truly believe that Grill will get their act together.  They better!  I live across the friggin street and need somewhere to eat!  LOL</p>
<p>You are the best, Ms. Dity!!!  Luh yuh back&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: bobbie</title>
		<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-652</link>
		<author>bobbie</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Feb 2005 19:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-652</guid>
		<description>Sounds like you had a great time, even if there was no bass!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds like you had a great time, even if there was no bass!</p>
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		<title>By: Sid</title>
		<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-651</link>
		<author>Sid</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Feb 2005 16:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Sid</title>
		<link>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-650</link>
		<author>Sid</author>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Feb 2005 16:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://siddityinthecity.com/2005/02/27/hot-ass-mess/#comment-650</guid>
		<description>come on down, er, over?

I don't know why, but hextra is damn funny to me, too. I just love it. I love it a hextra lot!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>come on down, er, over?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know why, but hextra is damn funny to me, too. I just love it. I love it a hextra lot!</p>
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