Archive for the 'love' Category

Secret Single Behavior.

What happens to it? Do you give it up when you couple up? It’s nearly 2:30 on a Wednesday morning and I am awake, wondering. Less than two weeks ago, I viewed an apartment with TLOML. Five days ago, we signed a lease on said apartment. Today, I’m pensive. Let me start over. I’m sitting […]

But right now, I am drinking a shiraz-pinot blend and farting around online while a beautiful, fabulous TLOML is making curry and quinoa and singing along to Bilal in his kitchen. I am periodically checking my own pulse, yes. Not dead, and definitely not paid up on my heavenly dues.

Back in therapy, as promised.

For some people, therapy is an admission of weakness, an inability to manage your issues on your own. For others, it’s a lifeline when you can’t manage whatever tom fuckery life has painted you with. For me, it feels like personal, emotional homework. I pretty much always need this homework. I’ve gotten to a stage […]

…that you’re torn between shouting it from the rooftops, and keeping mum so as not to jinx yourself? *stupid grin*

Chicago Pride.

Spent about an hour and change at Pride this afternoon. Not to party, in that I went alone and with little more in my system than a Kind bar and a giant iced coffee. But certainly to celebrate and enjoy the day, at least for a little while. ***** Excerpt from an email I sent […]